The Moon of Interdependence: Aries
Yet, it falls within the calm, harmony-seeking Libra season—a time ruled by Venus, when relationships, balance, and beauty take center stage. This offers us a potent time to reflect on how we balance the push and pull between our personal desires and our relationships, between independence and interdependence.
The Start of Fall
This full moon invites us to reflect on how we assert ourselves in the world. Aries is all about the self—our identity, our will, and our courage. Libra season, on the other hand, reminds us that we don’t exist in isolation.
It asks: How do you balance your desires with the needs of those around you? It’s a time to look at the relationships in your life—whether they’re romantic, familial, or professional—and assess whether they are in harmony. This balance between self and others is the central lesson of this full moon. Balancing your desires with the needs of others doesn’t mean suppressing your individuality. In fact, that’s a common misunderstanding that can create internal conflict. When we suppress our own needs in favor of others, resentment can build. On the other hand, when we pursue our desires without considering the impact on others, we risk damaging relationships, losing trust, and creating pain.
Maybe you’ve been working hard on a project that requires long hours, but your colleagues are feeling the strain of your absence. Or maybe you’ve been a team player, helping others with their tasks, but now you feel your own work is suffering. The Aries full moon asks you to take an honest look at how you can re-align this balance, considering both your own desires and the larger group’s needs. This can lead to hard but necessary conversations—both with yourself and with others.
Emotionally, this can stir feelings of frustration, impatience, or even anger if we feel our needs aren’t being met. Aries energy wants us to charge ahead. It’s important to release any pent-up emotions in a healthy way during this time—through creative expression, physical movement, or honest communication. Holding on to these emotions can lead to inner conflict and tension.
Herbs for the Body
Aries rules the head, face, and brain, while Libra governs the kidneys, lower back, and the skin as a balancing organ. Aries’ fiery energy can lead to headaches, tension, and inflammation, especially if emotions run high. On the other hand, Libra season calls for a focus on balance, including the balance of fluids and detoxification in the body, particularly through the kidneys. This is a great time to focus on herbs and foods that support both areas, helping to clear heat and inflammation from the head while also supporting kidney function and overall harmony in the body.
Here are some herbs to work with during the Aries full moon:
Peppermint – A cooling herb that helps relieve headaches, tension, and heat in the body. Sip on peppermint tea when you’re feeling stressed or overheated, or rub peppermint oil on your temples to soothe tension.
Chamomile – Known for its calming properties, chamomile helps ease irritability and restlessness that can arise under Aries' influence. Drinking chamomile tea can also support digestion and promote relaxation.
Dandelion root – A powerful detoxifying herb that supports the liver and kidneys, helping the body flush out toxins and excess heat. Enjoy dandelion root tea to promote kidney health and aid in detoxification.
Nettle – High in minerals and known for its nourishing and anti-inflammatory properties, nettle helps support kidney function and reduce inflammation in the body. Drink nettle tea to support overall balance and vitality.
Lavender – This soothing herb can calm an overactive mind and ease stress, helping you feel more centered and balanced. Use lavender essential oil in a diffuser or add it to a bath for relaxation.